Hey Ken -

A term found in American English of 19th Century down home type etymology, It sort of says for me - If given the opportunity, I'd make but this one choice.

The dictionary suggests -

druth·ers [druhth-erz]
noun Informal.
one's own way, choice, or preference: If I had my druthers, I'd dance all night.

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