I have no experience with Fir, (and very little experience with anything else!), but I'll tell you what I did...
I used dovetails, and kept them short... 2.0". I began using dovetails that were 2.75" long, but then I went to a TimberPeg frame raising in Cinci, OH and saw the dovetails that the CNC hundeggar machine produces - they can't be over 1.5" long. (can anyone else confirm this?) I realized that my girt housings were only 1.25" deep, so why wouldn't 2" dovetail support a floor joist? Sure it will. Everywhere I had girts or rafters that were less than 10" wide, and had joist or purlins coming into them from both sides, I used the 2" dovetail. Elsewhere I used 2.75" dovetails. (I had already made most of my floor joists and purlins at the beginning of the project, so I eventually had to lop off .75" from many of the joists and purlins.)
As they describe in the books, I undercut the male dovetails slightly, and at the raising (my raising is still going on!) I drove dried hardwood wedges on both sides of the dovetail. You would not believe how tight this will pull the joints together... tighter than a 2 ton come-along will pull them... and they stay!!! If you use wedges, be careful when you drive the wedges, as it will pull so tight that it can rack your frame out of square if you haven't pegged everything yet and your girts are a little bowed.
BTW, there is another benefit to keeping your dovetails short - you can use a right hand skil saw and a left hand (worm drive) skill saw to cut the dovetails so long as you have the end of your beam square.
FWIW, I did not use housed dovetails (except for one place in my house), because they add 2x the work for only a small benefit. In fact, for my 1st floor, I omitted the dovetail (simple lap joint) on every 2nd or 3rd joist to save a little more time. I used lap joints in very few places upstairs, since the dovetails really help hold the structure together.
To summarize, my joists and purlins are hardwood 6x8s (mostly oak), spanning 10' to 13', terminated with the dovetails 6" tall and 2.0" (or 2.75") long. I used 6x10 purlins where the span was 15'. The girts, summer beams, and principal rafters are 8x10, 8x12, 10x10, and 10x12 depending on the span and whether joists join from both sides or one side. I would highly recommend using dovetails over tusk tenons - mainly to simplify (or make possible!) the raising.
-Thomas
I will post some dovetail pictures on my blog in the next few hours. (hundeggar dovetails as well as the more traditional ones that I used)
my web page with soon to be added dovetail pictures