Here are some links to a few more online calculators which may help with elliptic/circular arch dimensioning and layout. Scroll down the pages for the math and diagrams.
Circular Arch Calculator Circle Center given Three Points on the Circle Elliptic Arch given Major or Minor Axis Elliptic Arch given two Arch Dimensions ... this might be what you are after
Ellipse Axes given two points on the Ellipse Intersection of an Ellipse and a Line Hope this helps. If you decide you want to go with a different conic section such as a parabola or an hyperbola I can post links for these curves as well. Or how about a sinusoid, cycloid or a catenary?
EDIT: MO, If you want to solve the arc lengths on an ellipse between any two points and have a programmable graphing calculator with an integration function check out these
example formulas .